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  • Question: Hey, how would you recommend that closeted gay men in college should go about finding other closeted or open gay men to hook up with without having to out yourself or worry about others outing you? thanks - Anonymous
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    I was lucky to have a guy find me. There’s sites where people can hook up but I would refrain from going to them because they are plagued with horny people who are just looking for one thing and one thing only… I’d say just look for guys around you or if you really want to try the sites then proceed with caution

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  • Question: hello first I love ur blog ur amazing for sharing ur story so this isn't really a question I kinda need ur advice im not gay but I live in a world where I cant be who I want to and I don't think I can ever come out and tell my friends and family anything. how do u suggest I get over my fear and just come out also I think I may be bi im not sure I know I like girls and guy but I don't think id get with a girl can u give me any wors of wisdom - Anonymous
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    It’s tough, I’ll be honest. But first you have to embrace it yourself before you start telling others. You gotta be confident in your sexuality. Coming out is sometimes difficult for some and relatively easy for others. In my case, it was extremely difficult. I remember telling some of my friends and every time I’d be nervously shaking when I was telling them. But right after I’d tell them, a huge sense of relief filled me and everything was great. It takes a lot of courage to come out but once you do, you won’t regret it. And there is the chance that some of your friends will not be happy but guess what, you don’t need those people in your life. There’s millions of people in this world and you gotta surround yourself with people that will support you and not bring you down.

    Alberto ;)

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  • Question: Hey, I'm just starting my freshmen year in college and in the last month I've started to realize that I am actually gay, or bisexual or whatever it is that I am. I have a crush on someone else who I believe is closeted as well and I dont know how to approach him or how to feel comfortable with approaching him and I was wondering if you had any advice on a situation of the sort. - Anonymous
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    I’ve definitely been in this situation. I would caution you though. Sometimes, we think other people are also gay/bi but because we want them to be. I remember having a crush on a guy and believing he was gay too. I would look at all the reasons why I think he’s gay. But he wasn’t, and when I found out I was heartbroken. So caution with your approach but follow your heart :)

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  • Question: Hello, I'm a bisexual teen. From the minute I knew, I told my mom and my friends who excepted me for who I am and I now have a beautiful girlfriend who one day I hope to make my fiance. But tell me how frustrating is it to not be able to tell anyone? I'm only asking cuz I've never known that experience. - emilyhelenislovely
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    It is extremely frustrating!!! but at the same time you don’t want anyone to know because you know that if other people know they won’t understand. It’s hard to imagine a world where everyone who knows you knows that you’re gay. But once you do start coming out is when you realize who is your true friend and who really matters and who should stay in your life.

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  • Question: How hard is it to loose your virginity? I'm past the point that 99% of people loose theirs and I feel kinda weird. She'd any light? - aaronsmeadenyc
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    Save it till the right person… I know it’s supper cliche but it’s not worth losing It to someone who leaves your life 5 minutes after having sex

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The first time I made Austin cum was wonderful. But that same day night something happened that made me think things twice. He spent the night that time after I had made him cum.

The next morning, we both were getting ready for class. He went to use the restroom. The rooms in my dorm at that time were single rooms but we shared a restroom. When Austin was in the restroom washing his hands, he forgot to lock the door and my neighbor walked in. I knew my neighbor pretty well but he didn’t know I was gay. Once he saw Austin in the restroom semi-naked I knew he would think we were both gay. What college guy has another college guy over for a sleepover? A gay one.

At that moment I felt like it was the end of the world. I felt like my neighbor would tell the entire school of what just happened. I told Austin my worries and he simply told me not to worry about it. I couldn’t help but be nervous. I wasn’t ready to come out of the closet. I think Austin saw how nervous I was about it that he decided to try to calm me down.

While I laid in bed wondering what good lie to come up with, Austin neared his mouth towards my crotch and began kissing it softly. That immediately got me excited. He continued kissing and then began pulling my underwear off. He swayed his hands from my chest to the sides of my body down to my ass.

He then began sucking my dick. All the worries I had slipped my mind as I began enjoying what he was doing to me. He then flipped me over and began to kiss my back from the top of my neck to the bottom of my back.

As he kept going lower, my body kept arching more since the feeling was so great. The then began to slide his tongue from the bottom of my waist into my ass. I had not let anyone given me a rim job, but I was just about to let Austin give me one.

He began using his tongue to touch my anus. He began to sort of lick it. He would blow air softly in the spot he licked and the cooling sensation was marvelous. I see kept licking he began to stroke my dick. I knew he wanted to make me feel better and she wanted me to cum. So I let the pressure takeover. I enjoyed the moment and let myself get to the point where I was about to climax. I began to warn him that I was close to cumming and he began to stroke my dick harder and began to move his tongue even more in my anus. I exploded. He used the same hand he was jacking me off with to hold the cum in his hand. It was super hot.

After I was done, he didn’t ask for me to help him jack off. He simply wanted to make me feel better. Then, the reminder that my neighbor had caught us began to sink in. I knew something had to change. And unfortunately, it had to be my relationship with Austin.

(More to come)

Alberto ;)

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  • Question: Hi. Im new to this tumblr thing and your blog (Your blog is awesome by the way). I haven't read that much of your blog, Im planning to, but are you single,taken, or not looking ? I just wanted to know. :) - itsmyjobtoknow
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    Thanks! I am single and ready to mingle ;) hahaha

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  • Question: how do you keep being able to hook up with dudes if you're not out? do they seek you out, or grindr or what? - Anonymous
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    Up to the point of my last post, Ive only had sex with two guys. The guy that I lost my virginity to was the first. He didnt know I was gay but as you can see from my story he kinda convinced me to come out to him.

    Here is that story: http://dcgt.tumblr.com/post/6781509683/losing-my-virginity-part-1

    Then it was Austin whose story I just told :) Later I will talk about my later encounters with other men and how they happened.

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Hello Tumblr friends!!!! I am finally back! I just graduated from college! I am the happiest man in the world! I hopefully will now have time to write all the stories from my crazy college years! Here is the 2nd part to the last story that I posted “Meeting a new guy”. If you don’t know which one it is or if you want to refresh your mind on the story then go to the link bellow :)

http://dcgt.tumblr.com/post/23022574601/meeting-a-new-guy

Sorry for the long hiatus but I am back and I am back for good :)

Meeting a new guy (Part 2)

The first time that I was with Austin we only kissed and rubbed our clothed bodies. To be honest I was fairly disappointed. I didn’t just wan to kiss him. I wanted to have sex with him. At first I wondered if he wanted the same thing and really just wanted to take it slowly or if he actually didn’t want to do anything with me. So I set myself to the task of finding out. 

A couple of days later, I invited him to my room. I remember I was nervous because I didn’t have a plan, I simply invited him over and left it all to fate to see what was going to happen. As soon as he walked in the door I began to feel horny. My mind went directly to what we did a couple of days ago. When he left his backpack on my chair, he turned and began staring at me. We stared for a few seconds. Seconds later we began walking to each other knowing what was about to happen.

He grabbed me by the head and brought me closer to his and began kissing me. His kiss was so soft. He didn’t use too much tongue. It was just perfect. 

Immediately I began directing him towards my bed. I wanted to have sex with him. I had fantasized being with him in bed since we made out a couple of days ago but I knew he wanted to take it slow. 

We got into my bed and he began to kiss me rougher. It got me turned on even more. I decided to start kissing his neck in an attempt to convince him to let me touch his penis. As I kissed his neck, I began to slide my hand from the side of his body to his ass. As I got closer and closer he kept moaning lightly. I was on top of him, while he laid on his back while he wrapped his legs over my body. I kept kissing him on the neck until my hand got to his ass and I began grabbing it. I noticed that he liked it so I kept doing it. 

From kissing his neck I proceeded to kiss his body. He still had his shirt on so I kissed the chest area right underneath his neck while I pulled his shirt on. Then he did something I wasn’t expecting him to do. He began taking his shirt off. Immediately I knew he wanted to have sex. I helped him take his shirt off and I continued kissing his body. From his chest I went to his nipples and went kissing all along the side of his body. The lower I got the more I realized he was liking it because he began arching his back. Eventually I got to his pants. I knew I had to test him first to see if he wanted to have sex so I began kissing his crotch area over his pants. He didn’t push me away. 

I then took my shirt off and went back up to kiss him in the mouth while I began to use my hands to unbuckle his belt. He didn’t resist. In fact, as I took his belt off, he took mine off. After that, things sped up. We both continued helping each other to take our pants off while we continued to kiss. Once our pants and underwear were off we touched our bodies and continued to kiss. I began to slide my mouth down his body again but this time I reached his penis. I began sucking it as he began moaning. He then stopped me and pulled me up. He then told me something that surprised me.

"This is the first time I am with a guy," he told me. "Ive never had sex before."

I was in shock. I obviously hadnt been with a virgin before and maybe thats why he was hesitant to have se at first. I then felt that I couldnt have sex with him. I didnt want to be the guy who corrupted him. But then I decided to just make sure that he at least cummed, and that he did so in my mouth. So I went down on him and began sucking his dick. As I did so, I began wondering if he wanted to be the top or the bottom I had only been the bottom while I had sex in the past. I then realized that he wanted to be the bottom also.

I began fondling his ass as I continued sucking him. He began moaning. I knew at that point that he wanted me to make him cum. The thought of pleasuring someone makes me more horny so I didnt mind doing so. I began sucking even deeper, making sure every inch of his large thick dick filled my throat. The deeper he got in my throat, the tighter he squeezed my arms the I had on his waist. I kept sucking him until he began moaning louder and realized he was about to cum. 

As I had his penis in my mouth, he began to cum. His warm cum filled my mouth. His moan turned into sighs of relief. He then told me that that had just been this first blow job. I guranteed him it wouldnt be his last.

(His story will continue on the next blog )

LOVE,

Alberto ;)

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  • Question: You've GOTTA put up some more stories ;) I need some motivation ;) - guy-on-guy-flirtations
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    I am writing one now!